For some reason, I’m crossing paths with a lot of men who are desperate for attention from women. The way they walk, talk think and act screams desperation and nothing turns people off more, especially women, than a man who is desperate.

Why? Well it screams low self esteem and no one wants to be involved with someone who has low self esteem. They’re hard work and at the end of the day, it’s not a woman’s job to fix you. They’re not your mother.

It makes men toxic because it takes over and they display toxic behaviour. I see all kinds of toxic behaviour in men from co-dependency issues to blaming people for everything and carrying that trauma into the next relationship without healing first.

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