“Peace is preserved by the strong — not negotiated by the weak.”
Bullies and aggressors don’t understand the language of tolerance and understanding.
Because that’s not the world they operate in.
These people, that includes women and young girls not just men and boys, aren’t wired to respect kindness.
They see it as weakness.
Especially in a world where young men and women confuse lawlessness for empowerment because the system teaches them it's ok to disrespect boundaries enforced by their parents.
They don’t interpret patience as virtue — they see it as permission and if you’re the kind person who believes that you can reason with the unreasonable, or extend peace to someone who only understands power, you’ll find yourself trampled, disrespected, and spiritually drained.
The harsh truth is this: bullies only understand strength. Aggressors only retreat from dominance.
You don’t counter force with appeasement.
You meet it with clear boundaries, assertive posture, and if necessary — force of your own.
Not out of anger and not out of ego but because peace is only preserved by those capable of war.
Tolerance is noble, yes.
But when extended beyond its limits, it becomes self-betrayal.
When you allow repeat offenders to breach your space, your values, your boundaries — under the banner of compassion — you aren’t being kind.
You’re being conquered.
A young man must develop the discernment to know when diplomacy has ended, and command must begin.
Bullies prey on the compliant.
They exploit the understanding, and they laugh at whoever continues to offer peace while being punched in the mouth — physically, emotionally, financially, or spiritually.
This is why discipline, presence, and controlled aggression are vital traits of the masculine.
Not to seek violence, but to end it.
Not to dominate others. But to ensure no one dominates you.
Let the world know: you are a man of peace — but not of surrender because when strength is your baseline, tolerance becomes a choice, not a survival tactic.
moukodojo@rammfitathleisure.com