In this world if you want to stand out you need to be courageous enough to be extraordinary, extra ordinary.
If you’re ordinary, you blend in, and you’ll compete.
There are so many men out there who complain they can’t get a high value woman yet do absolutely nothing to attract one.
They sit at home sharing memes on social media, gaming, drinking, jacking odd to free porn, partying, gambling or watching televised sport religiously, telling everyone how bored they are yet do nothing about getting on the same frequency as the woman they truly desire.
A high value woman doesn’t want a man who has no idea who he is, what he wants or where he is going.
By high value I mean a woman with integrity and self-worth, someone who understands masculine energy and isn’t intimidated by a strong man who is guided by his own values, principles and standards.
Don’t get me wrong, the world is oversaturated with weak, compliant, passive, agreeable yes men with no frame but equally, the world is oversaturated with women who think they are equal with men and all they want is a beta yes man provider with the masculinity of a wet mop.
My question is, why would women want to be equal with men when they are so much more and better?
Men are hard wired to lead, provide and protect and if a man is denied the ability and the space to do these things, he becomes lazy, uninspired, depressed, anxious, miserable and checks out.
A high value woman wants a mission driven man who lives with passion and purpose.
A man who knows who he is, what he wants and where he is going.
An ambitious masculine man living his life’s purpose is magnetic; they are attractive because they are a go getter, not afraid to go after what they want in life.
If you want to attract the kind of woman you truly desire, you have to be willing to suffer.
Giving up the lifestyle you have for the lifestyle you really want being the man you were born to be.
You need to be willing to unlearn a lot of things you learnt from people who had no idea what they were doing either.
Think about getting your finances in order.
Nothing repels feminine women than a man with no intelligence when it comes to managing his own money.
You don’t have to be a Jeff Bazos, but if you’re constantly broke and complaining about it, you’re only going to end up competing with other men who do the same on the bottom of the barrel.
Have some financial goals and be seen to be working towards them.
I would also suggest being too busy to watch televised sport.
Instead of watching it, participate in it.
It shows you care about your health and well-being more than you do watching TV.
Be willing to socialise which is important.
You don’t have to be talking to everyone, you just need to build the confidence to strike up conversations with complete strangers and keep it interesting.
If you can do it in front of women, even better.
Never underestimate the power of being able to strike up conversations with complete strangers, male or female.
It shows you can communicate effectively.
You don’t have to be an extrovert, just be genuinely curious and ask a lot of questions because people love to talk about themselves.
Play the long game when it comes to sex.
Don’t ever look or act desperate to get laid because ninety nine percent of men are.
The moment you give up that power, the harder it is to reel back in.
You never want to look desperate for sex and don’t let beauty manipulate into anything either otherwise you could find yourself in a situation you may regret down the track.
Be in total control of your emotions and urges; it’s a huge turn on when you are.
Most importantly, aim high.
If you don’t have standards, you’ll settle for average and that’s where men come unstuck.
You’ll never get what you truly desire if you don’t believe you are worthy.
These are just a few of the things I have learned through the painful process of trial and error.
Be extraordinary, extra ordinary.
Have the courage to stand out from the average crowd.
You’ll stop competing and you’ll start attracting.
I hope you find this of value, my brothers.
Keep winning.