The one thing I notice from the many conversations I have with men is the constant need to blame everyone for the problems they have created for themselves.
There is a complete lack of ownership. accountability and responsibility and when men stop taking ownership, accountability and responsibility, they head down the path of depression, anxiety, misery and worst case, suicide.
When someone blames everyone and complains about everything, it’s a clear sign they have lost the drive and ambition to do more and be better.
The way I put it is, they have completely checked out of life; they’re waiting for someone else to come and solve their problems for them and nothing repels people, especially feminine women, more than a man living with a victim mentality.
It’s toxic and it’s a complete turn off.
Complaining about everything that happened to you and blaming the people you allowed into your life for the situation you find yourself in is the easy thing to do.
We shift the blame on to others and that’s the easy option but in truth, we find ourselves becoming more and more depressed as time goes by.
We don’t see that the only way out is to take complete ownership, accountability and responsibility for absolutely everything so we can start to rebuild.
If we don’t take ownership, accountability and responsibility, we start losing control.
Uncontrolled aggression starts to take over, we become more and more angry with people who have let us down and it’s very hard to think clearly; we are driven by dark emotions that are no good for our mental health.
We find it harder and harder to make better judgements because our trauma is taking control of our mind, and it starts to become a daily habit.
Then we start drifting into hypnotic rhythm and it’s very hard to break free.
That is the problem for a lot of men in modern day society.
They are so traumatised and so depressed that they begin to check out of life.
In their own mind, it’s pointless to even try anymore.
Always remember, your car registration is your probem to pay because it's your car.
It's your job to pay your bills because they are your bills.
It's your job to solve your own problems because they're your problems, no one else's.
I hope you find this of value, my brothers.
Keep winning!
There is a complete lack of ownership. accountability and responsibility and when men stop taking ownership, accountability and responsibility, they head down the path of depression, anxiety, misery and worst case, suicide.
When someone blames everyone and complains about everything, it’s a clear sign they have lost the drive and ambition to do more and be better.
The way I put it is, they have completely checked out of life; they’re waiting for someone else to come and solve their problems for them and nothing repels people, especially feminine women, more than a man living with a victim mentality.
It’s toxic and it’s a complete turn off.
Complaining about everything that happened to you and blaming the people you allowed into your life for the situation you find yourself in is the easy thing to do.
We shift the blame on to others and that’s the easy option but in truth, we find ourselves becoming more and more depressed as time goes by.
We don’t see that the only way out is to take complete ownership, accountability and responsibility for absolutely everything so we can start to rebuild.
If we don’t take ownership, accountability and responsibility, we start losing control.
Uncontrolled aggression starts to take over, we become more and more angry with people who have let us down and it’s very hard to think clearly; we are driven by dark emotions that are no good for our mental health.
We find it harder and harder to make better judgements because our trauma is taking control of our mind, and it starts to become a daily habit.
Then we start drifting into hypnotic rhythm and it’s very hard to break free.
That is the problem for a lot of men in modern day society.
They are so traumatised and so depressed that they begin to check out of life.
In their own mind, it’s pointless to even try anymore.
Always remember, your car registration is your probem to pay because it's your car.
It's your job to pay your bills because they are your bills.
It's your job to solve your own problems because they're your problems, no one else's.
I hope you find this of value, my brothers.
Keep winning!