Are you living in the past?
Why?
It happened, get over it.

Stop being a victim that lives with regret.
You may as well own it and use it as fuel to help propel yourself further along your path.

Let me show you why you shouldn’t do it and how you can let shit go so you can start living up to your true and fullest potential as a man in modern day society.

If you live in the past, it means you’re not living with a positive mental attitude.
If you’re constantly living with regret wishing things had turn out differently, sooner or later you’re going to be depressed, anxious, miserable and cynical.
There’s already enough of that shit in the world, it’s your job to recognise that if you want to live up to your true and fullest potential and make your bloodline proud, you’re going to need to make a few changes.

It won’t be easy; I’m not going to lie.
It will take quite a bit of effort to recognise that you’re doing it, but if you can recognise when and where you’re doing it and you have the desire to make a change for the sake of your own mental health, that’s when things will change.
Not a moment sooner.

You’re the leader strong enough to break generational curses, you’re the man your bloodline has been waiting for.
What an honour it is to be the one who changes everything for future generations.

So how do you do it?
If you’re like me and had no real guidance when it comes to things like this because you didn’t have mentors to help guide you in a life you’ve never lived before, let me show how I do it.

Do you know what you want and where you want to be?
If you don’t know the answers to those questions, how can you get to where you want to be?
That’s one place you can start.

You need to focus on the things you can change so that moving forward, everything will start falling into place for you.
It’s now your job to think about who you want to be and start walking, talking, thinking and acting like the man you want to be in five to seven years.

It all starts with a solid foundation so start small, make little adjustments and be consistent.
Have a vision in your mind of where you want to be and stop worrying about whether you can achieve it or not.
Of course you can, anything is possible.
Your job is to make a plan and take action, learning through trial and error.

Your mind needs to be on the future you want to create for yourself, learning from the mistakes of the past, not living in it.
Use them to help fuel the process, drawing on the emotions and directing them into something positive so that you can be the best version of yourself you can possibly be.
As God intended.

You’re not here to be bland, boring and average, living in the past and blaming everyone else for the things that happened to you.
Sure, it may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility to own it so that you can finish strong.
In order to live your best life, you need to be here, fully present in the here and now and fully engaged.
You’ll never live if your mind is stuck in the past.

I hope you find this of value, my brothers.

Keep winning!